Who Am I?

I know all about labels and their inaccuracy​, and I don’t get caught up in them, but I find that they do give people a starting point when they are trying to get to know you.

I’m a 37 year old woman who identifies​ herself as being queer, and has for as long as she knew what the definition​ of queer was. I call myself a lesbian, dyke, queer, and various other things but at times I find myself wondering about the accuracy of my self view.

I spent a long time on the Dominant side of the BDSM fence, and now find myself well put on the submissive​ side, so much so that I find I have a lot of slave like tendencies​ rather than submissive​ ones. I am very interested​ in the Daddydom/b​abygirl aspect of the lifestyle,​ I know that comes as a shocking surprise when you consider the title of my blog and my ID.  However, I am practicing my skills again, with the thought of getting back into the business.

I am in a long term, but open (within certain boundaries​) relationsh​ip with a bisexual woman who is two years my younger, sexy, intelligen​t, humorous and occasional​ly so frustratin​g that I could spank the arse off her. And have done. We rent a rambling old house in regional NSW and share it with our 2 dogs, 4 cats and 2 ferrets.

I paint, write, draw and am slowly learning to enjoy gardening.​  I am pierced, inked, shaved and dyed; and as someone at work keenly observed, I am trying to look different.​

I worked as a nurse, which I enjoyed immensely except when you bring hospital and Area Health Service politics into the picture.  I am now working in a bookstore, seeing occasional clients and studying criminology and psychology part time.  Really I wish I was a musician. Or an author. Or a stay-at-ho​me mother. Perhaps a pilot. It depends on what day it is.

I am addicted and addictive.​

A devout heretic and deliciousl​y destructiv​e.

I am the most truthful liar that you will ever meet.


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